Retreats Descriptions
January 2, 2009 by sandra
Filed under Educational Cntr
Retreat 2010 Descriptions
Retreats are 5 days/4 nights and include brand new beautiful accommodations, your workshop training with two coaches, any handouts, Asheville airport pick up and drop off.
Healing the Aftermath of Pathological Love Relationships (PLR)This is our hallmark retreat focused on helping you understand the dynamics of your relationship, pinpoint your super traits as to why you were attracted to and tolerant of pathological people, and what you need to do in order to heal.
- Identifying personality disorders
- Hard-wiring of pathology
- Understanding intense attachment to pathologicals
- Bad Relationship Choices
- How to break up and stay gone!
We ran this retreat all year long in 2008! Always a great seller and a great healer! Come join Sandra for this fascinating retreat.
Sorry, limited to 6 participants only!
** IMPORTANT: Announcements of openings in a retreat can quickly be filled.
Please email us first and ask if the opening still exists before paypal-ing the fee for the retreat.
THANKS **
Download a retreat application – complete, then email to:
saferelationships@yahoo.com
Currently scheduled sessions:
Sun. Jan. 10 – Checkout Fri. Jan. 15 – Brevard, NC - $550 – SOLD OUT
Sun. Feb. 21 – Checkout Fri. Feb. 26 – Brevard, NC – $550 – SOLD OUT
Mon. Mar. 1st – Checkout Sat. Mar. 6 – Brevard, NC – $550 – Limit 6 participants – 
Individual Intensive Sessions with SandraThese private intensive sessions with Sandra incorporate 4-5 months worth of counseling within 4 days. Sandra
provides approximately 5 hours of counseling per day to one individual which includes intensive review of:
- Your exposure to previous pathology (from childhood through adulthood)
- Resulting in your patterns of selection (an intensive review of your relationship history)
- Teaching you the dynamics of pathology
- Why your aftermath symptoms developed
- Your unique at-risk factors for this relationship
- How to spot them in the future
- Treating your aftermath symptoms of PTSD, intrusive thoughts and the ping-ponging of cognitive dissonance
You will also receive a Recovery Basket of products, CD’s and DVD’s to return home with to solidify your recovery.
- Your private individual stay in a brand new retreat center complete with garden tub for relaxing soaks!
- Approximately 5 hours of therapy a day (2 hours on day of arrival)
- Private access to our on-site Pathology Library of books, videos, DVD’s, CD’s to personally side alone while at the intensive.
- Individual intensive support by Sandra over four days.
- Recovery Basket of Products
- Asheville, NC airport pick up and drop off
Price $1,800.00
Price break down:
Accommodations in 3 bedroom retreat house:
$125 night x 4 nights = $500
Private Intensive Support by Sandra
Date of Arrival: Approximately 2 hours of therapy
Days 2-4 Approximately 5 hours of therapy $76.47 an hour
Product Basket, Complimentary
Airport Pick up and Drop Off, Complimentary
= Price $1,800
Currently scheduled sessions:
Mon. Feb. 8 – Checkout Fri. Jan. 12 – Brevard, NC – $1,800
** IMPORTANT: Announcements of openings in a retreat can quickly be filled.
Please email us first and ask if the opening still exists before paypal-ing the fee for the retreat.
THANKS **
Documenting Your Legal Case
Huge hit last year-devising an approach to your high conflict case with a pathologically disordered partner. ** ONLY ONE OFFERED IN EARLY 2010!
Download a retreat application – complete, then email to:
saferelationships@yahoo.com
Currently scheduled session:
Sun. Feb 14 – Checkout Fri. Feb. 19 – Brevard, NC
** IMPORTANT: Announcements of openings in a retreat can quickly be filled.
Please email us first and ask if the opening still exists before paypal-ing the fee for the retreat.
THANKS **
These retreats are not yet scheduled:
Boundaries for Pathological Relationship Prevention
At the heart of what contributed to ending up in a pathological love relationship is the absence of healthy and consistent boundaries. From our research, every person in pathological relationships ended up there because of a lapse in boundaries or the absence of them to begin with. The first foundation of recovering is establishing boundaries.
- What are they?
- Are you selfish for having them?
- How to you have healthy boundaries without becoming a bully.
- How are boundary violators LOOKING FOR you because of your weak boundaries?
- Develop healthy boundaries with your family, friends, work and partners
- What kind of boundary violations do pathological use? Then how do they ‘up’ their violations from there?
Never be targeted again based on your lack of boundaries! A MUST WORKSHOP for every woman healing from pathological relationships. If you don’t have this, you won’t have healthy relationships. Enjoy the group process, journaling, role playing, and DVD training series as well! Taught by various Institute Faculty members.
How to Spot a Dangerous Partner
Dangerousness is not just violence — it’s getting involved with someone who has a permanent personality disorder with the inability to sustain change or develop insight.
- What are the EIGHT types of pathologicals?
- How can you learn to spot them?
- Why is pathology so destructive to normal people?
- What are the signs of a bad dating choice?
- What in your HISTORY has made you prone to selecting and be targeted by dangerous people?
Taught by our own Rachele M., a Life Coach & Trainer, you will come away with a clear understanding of pathology, dangerous partners, how to spot and how to leave! Sandra will lead the groups on Formation of Pathology in others.
Managing PTSD, Intrusive Thoughts and Cognitive Dissonance Symptoms
Our instructor will explain how painful intrusive thoughts, obsessions about him, the relationship, and cognitive dissonance all entrap women within cycles of conflictive thinking about her pathological mate. The number one complaint by women is the inability to control her intrusive and obsessive thoughts. She can often hold both thoughts of awe and dread simultaneously creating enormous anxiety for her. Other forms of treatment may be been ineffective in helping her stop thinking about him in loving and longing ways. She is trapped between reality and fantasy unable to free her self. This retreat will address methods that help to:
- Move beyond the pain of conflictive thinking
- Discover ways and methods to overcome intrusive, plaguing, and debilitative thoughts
- Develop Maintenance Program for mental soundness
- Learn Spiritual Insights for peace
Healing the Aftermath of Pathological Love Relationships (PLR)
This is our hallmark retreat focused on helping you understand the dynamics of your relationship, pinpoint your super traits as to why you were attracted to and tolerant of pathological people, and what you need to do in order to heal.
- Identifying personality disorders
- Hard-wiring of pathology
- Understanding intense attachment to pathologicals
- Bad Relationship Choices
- How to break up and stay gone!
We ran this retreat all year long in 2008! Always a great seller and a great healer! Come join Sandra for this fascinating retreat.
(Sorry, limited to 6 participants only!)
Download a retreat application – complete, then email to:
saferelationships@yahoo.com
Currently scheduled sessions:
Sun. Jan. 10 – Checkout Fri. Jan. 15 – Brevard, NC - $550 – SOLD OUT
Sun. Feb. 21 – Checkout Fri. Feb. 26 – Brevard, NC – $550
