Understanding Destructive & Pathological Relationships

Core training for understanding the basic of psychopathology related to personality disorders (especially narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths) and the impact on personal relationships with them.This training includes:

  • The unknown facts about pathology in our culture
  • The frequency of pathology in others
  • Why a pathological doesn’t change
  • The cause of personality disorders in others
  • Genetic Transmission of pathology
  • Pathology and its connection to child abuse and neglect
  • The pathological personality types and relating behavior
  • Relationship dynamics with a pathological person
  • The partner’s aftermath of symptoms
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Healing the Aftermath–Recovery for Wounded Women

Taken from the material from our intensive retreat program, this self help DVD gives in depth insight into the crazy-making dynamics of the Pathological Love Relationship—which is like no other relationship.  Understand how the relationship dynamics creates intrusive thoughts, intensity of attachment, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and mind control-like experiences.Learn the never-before revealed temperament traits of people who are attracted to, and tolerant of, the most disordered population and what it is that keeps them ‘in’ the relationship.Break free with our step-by-step exercises developed to reduce intrusive thoughts and anxiety, Post Traumatic Stress Symptoms, increase mindfulness, and stop the obsessive thinking about the relationship.

We are the only program focused exclusively on healing the aftermath of exposure to the most disordered population.

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Understanding Pathology and Its Affect on Relational Health

This clinical training for mental health professionals will supply excellent educational information for therapists to begin to immediately spot and treat the aftermath of pathological relationships—no more merely labeling them ‘codependent’ or ‘relationship addicts.’ You will have a clear and compelling understanding of this dynamic!

  • The Etiology of Psychopathology
  • The Structural Personality Deficit of Cluster B’s & It’s Affects on Life Long Development
  • New Understanding of Biology, Personality Disorders & Brain Functioning
  • Motivational Drives in Pathology
  • Dynamics & Relational Inevitabilities of Pathological Love Relationships
  • Treatment Issues and Approaches
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Leaders PowerPoint Program for Churches

Understanding and Healing from Pathological Relationships Workshop
PowerPoint (For Christian Women): Leaders PowerPoint Program for Churches. A 2.5 hour PowerPoint filled with pictures, graphics, scriptures related to abuse and pathology, and over 100 PowerPoint slides that detail the concepts regarding pathological relationships, and what makes for healthy relationships and marriages. Easy to use and follow. Makes an excellent presentation.
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Leaders PowerPoint Program for the Community

Understanding and Healing from Pathological Relationships Workshop
Leaders PowerPoint Program for the Community.  A 2.5 hour PowerPoint filled with pictures, graphics, and over 100 PowerPoint slides that detail the concepts regarding pathological and often destructive relationships. Easy to use and follow. Makes an excellent presentation.
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PowerPoint Collection

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  • Leaders PowerPoint Program for Churches
  • Leaders PowerPoint Program for the Community
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Guided Relaxation for Repairing the Aftermath of Pathological Love Relationships

Imagine lying down and relaxing to restful music, feeling your muscle tension ebb away.

As your body relaxes, your mind drifts, and you listen to the soothing sound of Sandra’s voice, easing your symptoms:

– intrusive thoughts
– gain emotional distancing
– reduce feeling tone and intensity
– flashbacks
– other mood management

Specifically designed to help you heal from the symptoms of pathological love relationships, this CD is approximately 60 minutes long.

 

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Maintaining Mindfulness in the Midst of Obsession

Do you find your mind straying back to him?

Wondering “How he could do that?”

“How could he get away with it?”

“How did I miss the red flags in his behavior?”

Do you find it hard to concentrate on your work and move forward with your life, because your mind keeps cycling back to him and the relationship?

Are you losing sleep replaying conversations you had with him, obsessing about where you went wrong?

Do you want to move forward and heal your life, but feel these thoughts are holding you back?

Take heart – there is hope for healing.  You are not alone.

Intrusive thoughts and obsessions are the number one complaint in recovering from the aftermath of Pathological Love Relationships.

As you learn to manage your thinking, you will reduce obsessive thoughts about the relationship and reduce anxiety.

This therapeutic set includes three pieces – 1 e-book and 2 audio CDs.

The e-book teaches you:

  • how the mind operates
  • what anxiety and pathological relationships does to the thinking process
  • how Mindfulness can relieve your symptoms

The 1st CD contains exercises to increase Mindfulness and reduce intrusive thoughts and obsessions.

The 2nd CD contains Mindfulness Chimes to remind you to be Mindful.

Break the cycle and begin your healing now.

 

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How to Break Up From a Pathological Relationship

How-to-Break-Up-From-a-Pathological-Relationship-ebook-coversmall Breaking up with pathologically disordered people is not the same as breaking up with normal ones.Learn the important and life saving tips you will need to follow to be successful the first time in breaking up. Learn what you MUST ALWAYS DO and what you MUST NEVER DO! Contains step-by-step guidance to detach and disconnect from highly disordered people.Following these suggestions keeps the door closed to future contact.
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Facilitator’s Handbook

How to Spot a Dangerous Man Educational & Support Group Facilitator’s Handbook.  A guide book for running Dangerous Man support groups for teens & adults.
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How to Start a Domestic Violence Ministry

How to Start a Domestic Violence Ministry at Your Church or Faith-Based ProgramHas your organization discussed starting a domestic violence outreach or program for victims of domestic violence in your community? Here’s a way to not re-create the wheel and hit the ground running. Written by a church who started their own program, simply follow these easy to understand guidelines to create your own program!
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How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved

What IS the Dangerous Man Book?

  • 8 Categories of Dangerous Men
  • Signs and Symptoms
  • Red Flags
  • Checklists
  • Your Own Sabotaging Behaviors
  • Why Women Date More Than One Dangerous Man
  • The Profiles of the Women They Seek

 

 

 

 

 

 

Recommendation by Steve Garufi, LPC from Cairn Counseling

Book Review by WomensSelfEsteem.com

Book Review by Fitnessbookmix.com

Also included are recommend books and clinical references for those that might like more education on the victimization topic.

GirlfriendBooks.com’s Interview with Sandra

GirlfriendBooks.com recently wrote an article about the book and interviewed Sandra.  Here is the lead-in from the article:

Attn: Single Women

Before that date tonight, you might want to head over to the bookstore and read up on who you could be meeting: a Dangerous Man.  Sandra L. Brown, M.A., will tell you all about him in How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved.

Although we are a married bunch here at Girlfriendbooks, we still clearly remember our single days. Luckily, we managed, without this book, to marry non “dangerous” men; although now that we reflect, we are quite certain a few of these “dangerous” men crossed our paths.  (It definitely explains one heartbreak in college.)

To our single girlfriends, do yourself a favor, and read this book.  This is not your average self-help.  Sandra L. Brown, M.A. knows from years of experience what she is talking about.  She could save you from intense therapy, or, possibly, save your life.

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How to Spot a Dangerous Man print book $14.95 + shipping and handling Add to Cart
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How to spot a Dangerous Man
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How to Spot a Dangerous Man Companion Workbook

Companion Workbook:

How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved Workbook: A Survival Guide for Women

The workbook is a companion piece to the main book How to Spot a Dangerous Man and is also designed to be used with the workshops, as well. The workbook is a mini-coaching session in which you will dip deeply into your past from childhood through your teen years, and into your adulthood looking for information about your personalized patterns of selection in relationships. You can’t change what you don’t see!

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Counseling Victims Of Violence

Counseling Victims of Violence

Desktop Reference Book For Human Service Workers

This Quick-Glance desk top reference book helps human service workers of all kinds find immediate information on various types of victimization and the corresponding counseling issues.

Victimizations and counseling approaches from cyber-stalking to homicide, from child abuse to terrorism is laid out in an easy to use format.

At a Glance you will be able to see:

  • What are the crisis counseling issues likely to be?
  • What kinds of secondary victimizations are likely?
  • What kinds of social services would be needed in this case?
  • What kinds of resources, books, websites and national organizations can I refer them to?
  • What are the short term counseling issues likely to be if I continue working with them?
  • What are the long term counseling issues likely to be and what resources are available?

Also included are recommend books and clinical references for those that might like more education on the victimization topic.

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Pathology Pack

Combo pack

How to Spot a Dangerous Man (print) + Women Who Love Psychopaths 2nd Edition (e-book)

Combine two great sellers for powerful insight.

Only $26.00 (plus shipping and handling)

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