Women Who Love Psychopaths – 3rd. Ed. – e-book

Women Who Love Psychopaths – 3rd Edition – e-Book

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By field-pioneer and survivor therapy innovator, Sandra L. Brown, M.A. with Jennifer R. Young, The Institute’s Director of Survivor Services (counseling).

The Institute for Relational Harm Reduction & Public Pathology Education is the field-leader and innovator in PLR survivor treatment, research and education. The Institute has created the only recognized Model of Care Treatment approach for PLR survivors following Trauma-Informed Care practices and evidence-based treatment approaches. Sandra is the President of the Association for NPD/Psychopathy Survivor Treatment, Research & Education. www.survivortreatment.com

New in the 3rd edition of Women Who Love Psychopaths:

MORE information than the previous edition of the book!  Since the release of the 2nd Edition nine years ago, we have been hard at work in the areas of survivor recovery techniques, therapist treatment training, and research—what traits in survivors are targeted.

This 3rd Edition contains new material such as:
  • All of our most recent updates on new knowledge of trauma-specific injuries like cognitive dissonance
  • New updates on Super Traits taken from our research with Purdue University
  • Our latest findings on why therapists are missing trauma in survivors because of the ‘atypical’ presentation of PTSD
  • What to look for when finding competent care
  • The basics of what every recovery should include
  • And so much more…
This is the ‘ultimate field guide for recovery’ taking more than three years to prepare and write. It is not only The Institute’s latest book but the FINAL full-length book on Pathological and Toxic Love Relationships.

This book, complete with survivor worksheets and information for assessing partner possible disorders, can help –

Survivors

  • Understand your own personality profile (identified as ‘targeted’ by these disordered personalities), taken from our 30 years of treating the survivors and the only research ever done on narcissist and psychopath’s victims, so that you can take pro-active steps to guard these ‘super traits’ (that are most targeted) by preventing another painful relationship
  • Make sense of the crazy-making relationship dynamics, ‘why they do that,’ how they differ from other dysfunctional relationships, why you didn’t see them coming, and how to spot them in the future
  • Learn what disordered personalities can never do in relationships, how their disorders were created and the neuroscience of their brain (which prevents lasting change), use our worksheets to see which disorders they are likely to have, what you can expect from their functionality, and why you were so harmed
  • Understand the #1 symptom in all Pathological Love Relationship (PLR) survivors—cognitive dissonance, how it’s created, what survivors are likely doing that is INCREASING traumatic symptoms, and the layers of cognitive dissonance which each need focused recovery treatment or self-help
  • Wonder why a therapist has missed your trauma symptoms? Understand the undiscussed reality of the unique type of PLR PTSD that has atypical symptoms that therapists don’t recognize. Recognize how cognitive dissonance is making your PLR PTSD worse and what needs to happen
  • Assess your own traumatic symptoms, fix why your recovery has stalled, use our guides to find competent care and learn what to avoid, understand why your therapist might be missing important clues to your needed treatment, and learn what your therapist needs to know
  • Think you are codependent or an empath? Learn why these are likely untrue, why you won’t get well getting treatment for these, and what you need to focus on
  • Have you been told you just need to ‘trust your gut’ to avoid a PLR in the future! Learn why this is not true for PLR PTSD survivors and why doing exactly that is likely to end up in another PLR! Learn why you have inconsistent intuition and what trauma has done to your intuition system
  • Want to institute self-help measures? Get our Recovery Basics that can get you on the path to recovery even before you find a therapist

Family and Friends 

  • What you should know about what the survivor has been through and why she isn’t getting over it quickly
  • The depth and breadth of her traumatic injuries and what she needs in order to recover

Therapists of the Survivors 

  • Stop wrong diagnosis, understand hidden atypical PTSD symptoms, identify the risk factors inherent in her personality trait elevations, work with the #1 often hidden symptom in this genre-specific population

General Public 

  • Learn the signs and symptoms of life and soul-destroying disorders—the impact to the partner, children, and societal systems—before you end up in one of these relationships of ‘inevitable harm,’ and why everyone should be concerned.
Sandra says, “I am enormously proud of this book–we have come so far in being able to document the theory of Pathological Relationships, a much deeper understanding of why the trauma is so severe, the strategic problems most survivors are having in finding competent care and more importantly, what they can do now to stop worsening their trauma.  It is absolutely everything I know and have to say as one of the pioneering therapists in this field.”

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Women Who Love Psychopaths – 3rd Edition

3rd (and final) Edition of Women Who Love Psychopaths: Inside the Relationships of Inevitable Harm with Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists

By field-pioneer and survivor therapy innovator, Sandra L. Brown, M.A. with Jennifer R. Young, The Institute’s Director of Survivor Services (counseling).

Sandra L. Brown, M.A.

Jennifer R. Young, L.M.H.C

The Institute for Relational Harm Reduction & Public Pathology Education is the field-leader and innovator in PLR survivor treatment, research and education. The Institute has created the only recognized Model of Care Treatment approach for PLR survivors following Trauma-Informed Care practices and evidence-based treatment approaches. Sandra is the President of the Association for NPD/Psychopathy Survivor Treatment, Research & Education. www.survivortreatment.com

New in the 3rd edition of Women Who Love Psychopaths:

MORE information than the previous edition of the book!  Since the release of the 2nd Edition nine years ago, we have been hard at work in the areas of survivor recovery techniques, therapist treatment training, and research—what traits in survivors are targeted.

This 3rd Edition contains new material such as:
  • All of our most recent updates on new knowledge of trauma-specific injuries like cognitive dissonance
  • New updates on Super Traits taken from our research with Purdue University
  • Our latest findings on why therapists are missing trauma in survivors because of the ‘atypical’ presentation of PTSD
  • What to look for when finding competent care
  • The basics of what every recovery should include
  • And so much more…
This is the ‘ultimate field guide for recovery’ taking more than three years to prepare and write. It is not only The Institute’s latest book but the FINAL full-length book on Pathological and Toxic Love Relationships.

This book, complete with survivor worksheets and information for assessing partner possible disorders, can help –

Survivors

  • Understand your own personality profile (identified as ‘targeted’ by these disordered personalities), taken from our 30 years of treating the survivors and the only research ever done on narcissist and psychopath’s victims, so that you can take pro-active steps to guard these ‘super traits’ (that are most targeted) by preventing another painful relationship
  • Make sense of the crazy-making relationship dynamics, ‘why they do that,’ how they differ from other dysfunctional relationships, why you didn’t see them coming, and how to spot them in the future
  • Learn what disordered personalities can never do in relationships, how their disorders were created and the neuroscience of their brain (which prevents lasting change), use our worksheets to see which disorders they are likely to have, what you can expect from their functionality, and why you were so harmed
  • Understand the #1 symptom in all Pathological Love Relationship (PLR) survivors—cognitive dissonance, how it’s created, what survivors are likely doing that is INCREASING traumatic symptoms, and the layers of cognitive dissonance which each need focused recovery treatment or self-help
  • Wonder why a therapist has missed your trauma symptoms? Understand the undiscussed reality of the unique type of PLR PTSD that has atypical symptoms that therapists don’t recognize. Recognize how cognitive dissonance is making your PLR PTSD worse and what needs to happen
  • Assess your own traumatic symptoms, fix why your recovery has stalled, use our guides to find competent care and learn what to avoid, understand why your therapist might be missing important clues to your needed treatment, and learn what your therapist needs to know
  • Think you are codependent or an empath? Learn why these are likely untrue, why you won’t get well getting treatment for these, and what you need to focus on
  • Have you been told you just need to ‘trust your gut’ to avoid a PLR in the future! Learn why this is not true for PLR PTSD survivors and why doing exactly that is likely to end up in another PLR! Learn why you have inconsistent intuition and what trauma has done to your intuition system
  • Want to institute self-help measures? Get our Recovery Basics that can get you on the path to recovery even before you find a therapist

Family and Friends 

  • What you should know about what the survivor has been through and why she isn’t getting over it quickly
  • The depth and breadth of her traumatic injuries and what she needs in order to recover

Therapists of the Survivors 

  • Stop wrong diagnosis, understand hidden atypical PTSD symptoms, identify the risk factors inherent in her personality trait elevations, work with the #1 often hidden symptom in this genre-specific population

General Public 

  • Learn the signs and symptoms of life and soul-destroying disorders—the impact to the partner, children, and societal systems—before you end up in one of these relationships of ‘inevitable harm,’ and why everyone should be concerned.

Sandra says, “I am enormously proud of this book–we have come so far in being able to document the theory of Pathological Relationships, a much deeper understanding of why the trauma is so severe, the strategic problems most survivors are having in finding competent care and more importantly, what they can do now to stop worsening their trauma.  It is absolutely everything I know and have to say as one of the pioneering therapists in this field.”
 

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Relaxation – MP3

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Moving Out, Moving On: When a Relationship Goes Wrong – e-book

Moving Out, Moving On: When a Relationship Goes Wrong–A Step-By-Step Approach For Organizing Your Leave Ahead of Time

by Susan Murphy-Milano Moving out, Moving on is today’s most comprehensive, step-by-step, practical guide to bringing the painful process of a relationship break-up and divorce to an equitable conclusion. This book offers a complete and detailed plan for dealing with all the aspects and pitfalls that one faces during this emotional and life altering experience. Through clear examination, simple forms and worksheets, Moving out, Moving on , logically takes the reader through all the necessary preparation and information gathering to effectively seek legal redress, protect one’s assets and credit, address considerations regarding children, define alternate living arrangements, and deal with the myriad of financial problems and concerns surrounding a divorce or break-up. Moving out, Moving on, also addresses in detail abusive relationships, domestic violence and stalking and how to safely confront these situations. Moving out, Moving on , is more then a simple workbook, but a true plan to take control of one’s life and face the future head on. This is not just another “divorce book” written by a so called “expert.” Moving out, Moving on , is authored by a person who truly knows…Susan Murphy-Milano.

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What Everyone Needs to Know About How You Were Wounded and Why It’s Different – Transcript

This document is a transcript of The Institute’s teleseminar on “What Everyone Needs to Know.”

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Assessing Your Danger – Quiz

Assessing Your Danger Risk

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  • Are you in Danger?
  • Abuse Effects on Women
  • Women’s Vulnerabilities to Chronic Victimization
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What Kind of Abuser Are You With – Quiz

What Kind of Abuser Are You With?

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Understanding Destructive & Pathological Relationships

Core training for understanding the basic of psychopathology related to personality disorders (especially narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths) and the impact on personal relationships with them.This training includes:

  • The unknown facts about pathology in our culture
  • The frequency of pathology in others
  • Why a pathological doesn’t change
  • The cause of personality disorders in others
  • Genetic Transmission of pathology
  • Pathology and its connection to child abuse and neglect
  • The pathological personality types and relating behavior
  • Relationship dynamics with a pathological person
  • The partner’s aftermath of symptoms
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Guided Relaxation for Repairing the Aftermath of Pathological Love Relationships

Imagine lying down and relaxing to restful music, feeling your muscle tension ebb away.

As your body relaxes, your mind drifts, and you listen to the soothing sound of Sandra’s voice, easing your symptoms:

– intrusive thoughts
– gain emotional distancing
– reduce feeling tone and intensity
– flashbacks
– other mood management

Specifically designed to help you heal from the symptoms of pathological love relationships, this CD is approximately 60 minutes long.

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Maintaining Mindfulness in the Midst of Obsession

Do you find your mind straying back to him?

Wondering “How he could do that?”

“How could he get away with it?”

“How did I miss the red flags in his behavior?”

Do you find it hard to concentrate on your work and move forward with your life, because your mind keeps cycling back to him and the relationship?

Are you losing sleep replaying conversations you had with him, obsessing about where you went wrong?

Do you want to move forward and heal your life, but feel these thoughts are holding you back?

Take heart – there is hope for healing.  You are not alone.

Intrusive thoughts and obsessions are the number one complaint in recovering from the aftermath of Pathological Love Relationships.

As you learn to manage your thinking, you will reduce obsessive thoughts about the relationship and reduce anxiety.

This therapeutic set includes three pieces – 1 e-book and 2 audio CDs.

The e-book teaches you:

  • how the mind operates
  • what anxiety and pathological relationships does to the thinking process
  • how Mindfulness can relieve your symptoms

The 1st CD contains exercises to increase Mindfulness and reduce intrusive thoughts and obsessions.

The 2nd CD contains Mindfulness Chimes to remind you to be Mindful.

Break the cycle and begin your healing now.

 

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How to Break Up From a Pathological Relationship

How-to-Break-Up-From-a-Pathological-Relationship-ebook-coversmall Breaking up with pathologically disordered people is not the same as breaking up with normal ones.Learn the important and life saving tips you will need to follow to be successful the first time in breaking up. Learn what you MUST ALWAYS DO and what you MUST NEVER DO! Contains step-by-step guidance to detach and disconnect from highly disordered people.Following these suggestions keeps the door closed to future contact.
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How to Avoid Dating Damaged & Destructive Women

How to Avoid Dating Damaged Women
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